Question by Hunter: If women on dating sites don’t ask questions about me, are they not interested?
I have done this chatting thing and online dating thing for a while, and it always seems the same thing. I will contact a girl, or they will contact me, and I ask them ?’s about themselves, and when they respond they just answer the question. They do not ask anything in return, and it is like they are not trying to keep the conversation moving, or else they expect me to keep it moving. Why?
Best answer:
Answer by Ben Burns
First of all, I think that guys should be the one who would personally keep the conversation moving. After all, you are the one who will be asking the woman out on a date. First impression lasts. If you want to talk to her, set up a date wherein you can meet and talk to her personally, and not just chit chat on the computer or through SMS cellphone.Girls pretty much misinterpret these! Body language and expressions count, and if you just communicate through those, they do not have any idea how enthusiastic you can be when you converse with her. If it’s not possible to meet personally, you can talk to her on Skype/Yahoo or wherever you want.
Let’s try it this way, when you meet her personally, talk about your passion, and I mean your passion and interests WITH zeal and enthusiasm. It does not matter if you are passionate about antique cars, or music, or freaking BANKING! As long as she can get an emotional high of the one you already have about the thing you are passionate about. Now, this is way easier than it sounds too.
Bear in mind: Do not be ashamed to love and talk about whatever the hell you love in front of women.She will reflect this and the so-called “Principle of Passion” should have done the job! Give it a try!
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